Happy Marriages: What’s the Secret?START WITH FRIENDSHIP
Good communication also is important. Couples who share thoughts, feelings and needs are more likely to be satisfied. Conflict and even anger is unavoidable. But couples who stay married are able to keep disagreements from escalating into all-out war. During arguments, stable couples are less combative than couples who end up divorced. They make more attempts to lighten the mood. That way, negative feelings don’t build up. On the other hand, if one partner treats another with contempt, defensiveness or belligerence, the marriage is more likely to fail. The message? It’s OK to fight, but spouses who are friends know how to apply the brakes. Other important qualities in lasting marriages include:
Whether couples are just tying the knot or have been married for 40 years, the following strategies can help make partnerships more successful:
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